Thursday, 1 July 2010

How To Tell If A Man Really Loves You

Most guys if not all men are generally a proud lot and will not easily admit to liking or being in love with a woman they are dating. Question is, how then can you tell if your man feels the same way you do?

Well, try judging by the way he treats you when in the company of his closest friends. When a guy is deeply in love with you, he will tell his closest friends.

Guys generally find it much easier admitting their love for a woman to a close friend than in telling the woman they are in love with. He's most likely in love with you if he lets you meet some of his close friends. If his guy friends treat you with respect, do not seem to alienate you during conversations even in his absence, it is probably a sign he told them how he truly feels about you.

Nothing in this world will stop a guy in love from treating his lady like a queen when in the company of his friends. Judging by the general reactions and comments of some of his closest friends, you will know if your man shares the same love you have for him.

If a guy likes you, he will definitely call you when he asks for and you give him your phone number. Don't worry if he doesn't call you the same day, as he probably does not want to appear to be too desperate.

If he truly felt something for you, it will not take long for him to call you and ask how you are doing, and even ask you out on a date.

Do you sometimes catch him unawares staring at you when in a social or public place? Well, it is probably signs of the guy's interest in you.

If it is the first time you are meeting the guy and he likes you, he will most likely find an ingenious way to approach you and introduce himself. If by any unlikely chance he doesn't end up asking for your phone number, chances are he may be shy.

Don't worry, if he likes you and you somehow feel attracted to him, nothing will stop the guy from tracking you down. This you can tell judging by what he asks you like say 'are you from around here?'

When your man is in love with you, he may admit and tell you openly how he truly feels. If he doesn't do that and you are wondering or even doubting his love, chances are, he most probably told you he loves you and you missed it during a conversation or an argument you recently had with him. Always try to listen closely to what he tells you and mince his words carefully.

Reason most guys find it hard to openly admit their love or state how they truly feel towards a woman they are dating is due to fear of rejection.

If you like a guy and are in a steady relationship with him, it is in the best interest of the both of you, for you to constantly reassure him of your true love and affection.

Constantly flirting with other guys in his presence may hurt his man ego and limit his trust towards you. Make your guy feel he's the only one for you and that your relationship with him is equally important to you. Do that and he will reciprocate and tell you how he truly feels about you and even say I love you.

If you meet a guy you like and feel courageous enough to want to approach and seduce him, stop! A guy will most likely warm up to your advances but in the back of the guy's mind, he will most likely end up dismissing you as being either too desperate or loose, and not his type of woman to date, even though he may have felt something for you too.

Though it is not bad to let a guy know you like and want him. Just lead him to believing he's the one chasing after your love. No matter whether he's a Leo, Scorpio, Virgo, Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius, Gemini, Aquarius, Aries, Pisces, Cancer, or a Capricorn, guys have a natural tendency to be the hunter and not the prey. If you lure him into seducing you, chances are you will most likely end up winning over his heart and love just like you desired.

Watch how you dress in public places especially when you are intent on getting a date with a guy, and hope for a lasting relationship. Most men will easily give in to a date with a skimpily dressed woman just to have fun with her then dump her later.

Publicly displaying too much of your body assets will only make you end up with guys genuinely not interested in how you feel, but who's only interest in you, is in the way you look.
If you seek a long-term relationship with a guy you really like, dress well while in a social or public place.

If a guy tells you that he likes or loves you, it will be in your best interest to believe him. Doubting your guy or even making him feel like you are not good enough for him, will go along way in alienating him from you than in strengthening your relationship bond. The reason he's with you and not another woman is because he likes and loves you.

Finally, if a guy tells you he likes you but you don't feel the same way he does, it is best you tell him. A guy will take it as a challenge to continue chasing after a woman or girl they like even if she does not like him and gives him a hard time, hoping she will one day reciprocate and admit to liking or even loving him too.

You can not force any good man to love you. If you are looking for your Mr. right, he may just be the guy you just met or are currently seeing. Show or teach the man how you want to be loved and you will discover true love.


  1. What about when he treats me VERY kindly and did something nice to me, and we always talk to each other, but when his friends(or someone he knows that I don't, but usually he introduces them to me) appear out of nowhere, he talks with them as if I was not there? What sign is that?

  2. Hi, when you said "The reason he's with you and not another woman is because he likes and loves you", what if he is with you because he's lonely and was used to being in a relationship. Its hard to tell sometimes if he's with you because he genuinely loves you or just because he's lonely and misses someone, anyone being there for him.

    1. sometimes it is the case. But most of the time hes with you because he feels more in love with you than any other women before. Yes men enjoy the company of women but they also enjoy feeling in love at the same time amd kmowing they have someone to talk to and to cherrish.

  3. What if he always say 'i luv u' bt his actions does nmt depicts what he says,he hardly calls and when he visit he is quiet when u try to bring up a top,as to what is on his mind he would say nothing.does this guy luv ME

  4. Then what should i do when a guy tells me he loves me before he knows me well and i only like him? What happens when my love for him develops while his for me fades? What's the meaning of that?

  5. whatdo u den do..if u aint sure if ur girl truly luvs u, or just wants to b around u cos u r damn too generous and just cant help it...

  6. Come on everyone.
    This article is just full of a bunch of random tips and, really, they've made the tips SO general they could apply to anyone and everyone!
    Thats what these sorts of things do.
    Don't go relying on things like this with your love life.
    If you're in a relationship with someone, wouldn't you want it to be a relationship where you feel you can talk to them about this sort of stuff?
    Come on now, instead of sitting at your computer reading endless articles on "How To Tell If A Man Really Loves You" get up, go BE with your man ^_^
    Believe in yourself, you'll know if a relationship feels right. And, if you're feeling doubtful there's really NO harm in talking about it :)
    Hope this helped some people...

  7. @ Heidi...that's some of the best advice I have ever read! ;)

  8. Myself being a GUY and the fact that I have Loved and been loved. I would say this writing pretty much hit it right on the button. And yes I do see this as "SO general they could apply to anyone and everyone!" That is due to us being human and being human we seem to follow others in there footsteps and ways. When a guy at a bar notices another guy doing something to pick up someone and it worked, you can beat your a** next time he will try the same thing. Its how we are, we always want the quick way to get what we want and we will do what others do to get it. That is why people read these and go by them. We are all human and want some type of love

  9. wat if the juy just walks pass n says hi wth a smile and then leaves but at the lunch break he walks by and just stares at me and gives me a smile and leaves? but he knows i like him to and he knows i want to start a relasionship with him. does he feel the same way about me?

  10. what about when your girl tells you she loves you on the phone at work when no one is around...then on the second break when i say i love you first she just says ok is that supposed to mean?

  11. Wow, ever think of reading it over and checking grammar/spelling before you post it? I couldn't keep reading, sorry :/

  12. so what do you say about a man , that tells you he loves you want's you to stay with him all the your living together this goes on for months maybe years .he never talks to you about the future or about ever getting married? will buy you things nothing expensive!!!. never takes you on a vacation or a weekend get away ...yet has been on many trips with out you!!!! what if the man who tells you he loves you is a mommy 's boy ?????so he proboly loves you rite??? well if he did would you have to move out when his mommy comes too town??? or would you say he loves you??? if he did would he have married you by now??? if he loved you? how about this!!! is that what you call love?????

  13. FUCK LOVE. its so much fucking pain and bullshit... you never know when a guy is telling the truth. guys lie, guys do and say what they "have" to in order to get what they want. guys could never love a girl more than she loves them. its the sad fucking truth.

    1. men lie because they are scared of how a women will react emotionally, men are not built to handle such extreme emotions like women. A good man will only lie about small things like if your outfit actually does make you look fat, but if they lie about other women and other hurtful things they are just the bad guy percent of the population. no reason to judge them all off a few sour experiences.

  14. You will always know in your heart if a guy loves you or not. Wether you want to admit the truth or not is your choice. <3

  15. What would i do if he says he loves u and goes and gets drunk and cheats on u every time he drinks. But u always take his sorry ass back because u think he loves u . And u dont want to loose that love.

  16. What do u do when he thinks its a chore to hold u and kiss u. Is that love even if he says he does.